It might be happens.
The example is myself.For my friends, I'm a good listeners. Many of my friends, whether in stressful situation or just want to share his/her happiness come to me and ask me to hear the stories. But actually sometimes i'm not really in the mood, maybe because that i'm busy with my work, or because she/he always tells me the same story. But, since I've been marked as a good listener, i can't resist and listen to them.
It's not easy. I also have my own issues in life, and i need to resolve that. But since I'm a goog listener, all i have to do just put aside my problems and spare some time for other people's issues.
Maybe for some people it's wrong. Because I only busy with other people issues and always be there for others to help, and in the other hand i don't have time to deal with my own problems.
But for me, it's not. It's some kind of good feeling. I felt needed. When people came to me to pour out their emotions and discuss their problems with me, i felt that ..ow..he/she needs me, trust me and they think my opinion worth enough to relieved them. Ok, sometimes i feel to tired, too busy, but one thing i remember, they trust me, so, i must be there for them. Sounds boosting right? But only with that feeling i realize that I'm able to help my friends just with listening to them. That worth the price.
What do you think?
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