EXCLUSIVE friendships

An excellent and gentle man I know said, "When fifty-one percent of voters believe in cooeperation as opposed to competition, the Ideal Commonwealth will no longer be a theory and become a done. "
What men need to work together for the good of all is beautiful, and I think the day will come when these things will, but the simple process of fifty-one percent of voters casting ballots to socialism does not Grand-il.
The issue of voting is simply an expression of sentiment, and after the ballots were counted, there is still work to do. A man may vote on the right and act like crazy the rest of the year.
The socialist who is full of bitterness, struggle, factions and jealousy is creating an opposition which will hold himself and all others like him in check. And this opposition is good, even for a very imperfect society is forced to protect themselves against the dissolution and a condition that is worse. To support monopolies and exploit them for the good of society is not enough, and not desirable either, as long as the idea of rivalry is rife.
As long as the car is higher in the minds of men, they fear and hatred of other men, and under socialism, it is precisely the same scramble for position and power that we see now in political life.
The company may never be rebuilt until its members are rebuilt. The man must be born again. When fifty-one percent of voters rule their own mind and put fifty-one percent of their envy, jealousy, bitterness, hatred, fear and stupid pride of their hearts, then socialism will be within reach fingertips, and not until then.
The subject is entirely too big to have a paragraph, so I'm going to content myself here with the words of one thing, the danger to society of exclusivity ties of friendship between man and man and woman and woman. There are no two people of same sex can complement each other, no time can they improve or benefit each other. Generally, they distort the mental and spiritual succession. We should have much knowledge or not. When two men begin to "tell each other everything," they are hiking senility. There must be some well-defined reserves. We are told that in the solid steel, for example, the molecules do never touch. They never give up their individuality. We are all molecules of divinity, and our personality should not be abandoned. Be yourself, I no man be required of you. Your friend think more you if you keep him a little distance. Friendship, such as credit, is highest where it is not used.
I can understand how a strong man can have a great respect and affection for a thousand other men and call them all by name, but how it can regard one of these men much higher than the other and preserve his mental balance, I do not know.
Let a man come close enough and he will clutch as a drowning person, and the two of you go. In a close friendship and exclusive men from other weaknesses.
In shops and factories, it happens constantly that men have their chums. These men relate to each other their difficulties they keep nothing back they sympathize with each other, they mutually condole.
They combine and by each other. Their friendship is exclusive and others it is. Snow in jealousy, arouses suspicion, hatred crouched around the corner, these men and combine a mutual dislike for certain things and people. They feed each other, their sympathy and dilutes the reason recognizing their problems men are doing their real. Things are becoming developed, and sense of values is lost. In a certain thinking is an enemy you evolve into one.
Soon, others are at stake and we have a clique. A clique is a friendship gone to seed.
A clique develops into a faction and a faction in a quarrel, and soon we have a crowd, which is a blind, stupid, crazy, crazy, ramp and roar mass who lost the rudder. In a crowd, there is not all people are of a mind and independent thinking is over.
A quarrel is based on nothing is a mistake a wrong idea to flame fanned by a friend crazy! And May it become a mob.
Any man who has something to do with community life has noticed that the clique is the disintegration bacillus and the clique has always flourished in the exclusive friendship of two people of same sex, which tell each other all the unkind things that are called one another "to be on your guard." Beware of friendship exclusive! Respect all men and try to find the good in everything. To associate only with the social, spiritual, wise, brilliant, is a mistake to go between the plain, stupid, uneducated, and the exercise of your own spirit and wisdom. You growth by giving favorites did not you take your friend as keeping away from him as you do so by following after him.
Revere him yes, but be natural and let the space intervene. Be a Divine molecule.
Be yourself and give your friend a chance to be himself. So you get him and receive him, you get yourself.
The best friendships are among those who can do without the other.
Of course, there have been instances of exclusive friendship that we will be flagged as examples of great affection, but they are so rare and exceptional that they serve to underline the fact that it is extremely unwise for men Regular power and intelligence to exclude their fellow men. A few men, perhaps, that are big enough to have a place in history, could play the role of David to another Jonathan and still retain the goodwill of everyone, but most of leads us bitterness and strife.
And this beautiful dream of socialism, where each work for the good of all, may never occur up to fifty-one percent of adults must abandon all exclusive friendships. Until this day arrives, you'll clicks, confessions which are grown clicks major factions, quarrels and sometimes the crowd.
Do not lean on any one, and let not a lean on you. The ideal society will be composed of persons ideal. Being a man and a friend to everyone.
When the captain warned his followers to love their enemies, he had in mind that truth is an exclusive love a mistake. Love dies when it is monopolized. It grows by giving. Your enemy is one who did not understand why you should you not rise above the fog and see his mistake and respect for him the qualities that you find him?

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